noone actually calls cheating or verbal aggression or anything thats not 'measurable' as violence. funny isnt it.
especially when skin scars can heal. or be disguised. or at least be ignored somehow. but not heart or mind scars.
sometimes these scars are deeper than any stab shot or cut. and noone cares much about them.
if only there was a punishment for the crime of breaking and smashing a persons heart. maybe less people would jump into bed ot relationships with others and then leave.